Introduction

I don't know when I first started visiting with the deceased. I'm sure it had to be in my teen years, most likely after I got my driver's permit or license. I was a socially inept kid and I knew that I didn't fit in with my classmates. I was merely tolerated at best and often tormented for laughs at worst. In our Senior Yearbook I was voted most likely to become a Hermit. I took it as a compliment.

Anyway, while everyone else would "Drag Main" street, I drove everywhere else. I lost myself in the roads around town, and eventually found my way to the local cemetery. I found solace; while there I didn't have to worry about belonging or even being found. Who would look there? Who was to judge me; the mostly unseen animals (Rabbits, skunks, lizards, antelope, prairie dogs, and snakes) or the stone cenotaphs? I found a peace there that fed my soul, if not my yearning to be a normal kid. I also found acceptance; I had a right to be there on any day and usually at any time. I didn't have to explain; and, I could think things through there. Time seemed to stop once I entered the gate; and, I was seldom interrupted without time to collect myself. I always left feeling better about things and calmer. Seeing the wildlife was and is a bonus. Like a wink from the creator. After graduation, I made a point of visiting while coming home for the Holidays, term end or even just a weekend spent at home.

I haven't visited the cemeteries any of other places that I've lived. The ones near my home town are where I feel most comfortable; and there are several. I have kin buried here. My Grand Parents on both Maternal and Paternal sides are here, in different cemeteries but, still nearby. My Father is also resting here awaiting the Resurrection. I've also discovered other relatives as I explore my family history.

Funny thing, I thought I was the only Graveyard Rabbit. You've probably seen one yourself.  They quietly sit just watching and listening in the hush and murmur of a Funeral service or on the HoIidays when you place flowers for your loved ones. I hope to become a registered member soon.  It's nice to know that there are others. I hope to update this blog on a regular basis with information about the area, the burial practices, interesting facts and other hopefully entertaining stuff. I don't know how regular that will be but we will see.